Hunted around for a good bit and couldn't find a straight up guide for connecting to a remotely hosted MySQL database so..

I am looking for some sort of a walk through to doing this... I have a few MySQL databases available. Seeing as how hosting and such is not my specialty at all and trial and error for 30 minutes got me absolutely nothing someone who knows what they're up to would be loved on so many levels about now.

I have set up the database on the host side but cannot for the life of me figure out how to get the bot to find/access/cooperate with it via the conf/MySQL.conf . Assistance would be loved And I suppose I should post some of my customs while I wait.... >.>... Thanks in advance

:takes a deep breath and tries it all again: well at least it seems like I'm going in the right direction with it.... do need to confirm I can remotely access the database... but I assume I would be able to.... Perhaps this would help me more since this seems to be what confounds me repeatedly

<?php
   /*
   Database name
   */
   $dbase = "notsure";    <- all my db's come in the format 'screename_dbname'. So... this would be the full 'screename_dbname' I would assume..... please correct if I'm way off (or even slightly )

   /*
   Database username
   */
   $user = "woohoo";    <-- obvious..

   /*
   Database password
   */
   $pass = "toodles";    <-- obvious..

   /*
   Database server (usually localhost)'
   */
   $server = "localhost";      <-- This would... become the exact address of that databse.. or.. the IP or........ :keeps trying things:


Trial and error.. I'll get this eventually :gets out large stick to start thumping things to make them work:

Well, this is running from my home PC and accessing a remote database >.>... Preferred this to trying to figure out how to get the website to talk to the bot or my resident db. I know how to make the page talk to the db but not the bot to talk to the db... :starts swinging thumping stick wildly:

"
Warning: mysql_connect(): Access denied for user 'bot'@'my.location.com'
...."

Really tiring of that message... going to try a few more things then call it a night and hope someone trots along with the piece that I'm missing.... :/

BTW if the Details are Correct like username and password im pretty sure access denied is because its localhost only and u can remote access it

i just have my all my bots running on my server, i can manage anywere

i see you use Support Forums, (changed Topic to Resolved) :p